HOW TO DEVELOP ATTRACTION

Set yourself apart in a no pressure social/group situation.

• Forge inside jokes
• Add a little innocent touching while you’re hanging out. By touching his arm after a joke or sitting close to him, you can help escalate the chemistry to the next level.

SHOW YOUR STRENGTHS

When you’re first getting to know someone, whatever you do, DO NOT talk about anything that makes you a liability!  Be confident and positive in how you talk about yourself. Never be tacky.  Don’t discuss past relationships, money, health issues, or work problems.  In other words, never quote your cost before you’ve shown him your value!

ESTABLISH YOUR VALUE

Arden believes that eighty-percent of establishing a fulfilling relationship is getting off on the right foot.  This means in the beginning of any relationship a woman must create value.  It’s true what they say that a woman’s work is never done, but this is one area where your hard work can really pay off.  You deserve to be fulfilled- and you can and should- take responsibility for your own happiness!

After you’ve revealed your strengths, take it to the next level.  Figure out what makes him tick sexually.  Get in his head (ok, and probably also his bed) and have fun figuring it out! Soon, he’ll be “whipped” which Arden defines as the point when a man is willing to do whatever it takes to keep you because you add so much value to his life! (I am sure there are some other connotations of whipped that come to mind as well, but we’re keeping this seduction article G-rated)!

Just like taking control of your financial future, taking control of your romantic future just takes a little organization, planning and confidence. We hope these tips from Arden will help you meet – and exceed – your lusty goals.  Remember- it’s all within your power to whip your love life into shape!

Arden Leigh is co-founder of Sirens, New York’s most provocative and advanced seduction coaching forum for women. Arden honed her seduction skills as the Director of Training and Marketing at New York’s most renowned house of professional domination, where she not only trained dominatrices to seduce their male clients into spending lots of time and money on them, she rose to the top as one of NYC’s most successful professional dominants.  She is a certified practitioner of neuro-linguistic programming and Ericksonian hypnosis, and out of her fascination with the male mind she has immersed herself in more male seduction material than any woman she knows. She has been publicly labeled a “predator” and she took it as a compliment.  Check out Arden’s blog A Weapon of Mass Seduction and for more info on coaching services visit www.seductionsirens.com.

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